When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself – Wayne Dyer

The top and shorts worn in this post were recent acquisitions. I had mentioned in passing that every new purchase was under scrutiny because of my Closet Crisis but these two safely made the cut. I see potential for both items when not worn together but I am loving these shorts and am breaking them out whenever possible.

H&M Top & Shorts, Forever 21 Necklace, ZiGiny Pumps (similar)

And I couldn’t help but get slightly agitated when I read comments like the one found on Ann Taylor’s facebook page (this page attracts a lot of vitriol from people who are insensitive to the plight of women of a particular size). There is no “normal” when it comes to size/shape/general constitution and I find it offensive when women thrash other women on an issue as sensitive as size, as though we don’t face enough pressure as we do from the other sex. sigh.